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For Adult Children

Helping an Aging Parent in Florida

Maybe it started with a fall, a worrying phone call or a hospital discharge planner asking, "What's the plan?" However it began, you're now helping a parent through decisions nobody prepared you for. You might live nearby in Delray Beach, or a thousand miles away. These guides are written for you, the son, daughter or other family member doing the helping. Each one explains a single piece of the job in plain English, with Florida rules and 2026 figures. Start with whichever question is keeping you up at night.
Illustration of an adult son showing his parents something on a tablet on a sunny Florida porch.

My parent needs help: the first 30 days

A week-by-week plan: getting a care assessment, finding the key papers, who to call, and what Medicare and Medicaid each pay for.

Read the first 30 days guide

You're mom's agent under a power of attorney. Now what?

What Florida law expects of an agent and a health care surrogate: keeping records, keeping money separate, and when gifts are allowed.

Read the agent's guide

Am I responsible for my parent's nursing home bill?

What signing as the "responsible party" means, what a facility can and can't ask of you, and how Medicaid estate recovery works in Florida.

Read about paying for care

Helping a Florida parent from another state

Local help on the ground, bank and medical access from afar, and a checklist for making each visit count.

Read the long-distance guide

When siblings disagree about mom's care

Family meetings, choosing who acts, mediation, and why guardianship is the last resort.

Read the siblings guide

Getting paid to care for a parent

Personal care agreements, Medicaid's participant-directed option, VA programs, and taxes on caregiver pay.

Read about caregiver pay

How to talk with your parents about money and care: a printable checklist (links to /first-conversation)

Where does our family stand? A 10-question private quiz (links to /family-quiz)

The five documents every Florida adult should have (links to /resources#five-documents)

What to know before signing nursing home admission papers (links to /resources#nursing-home-admission)

Planning after a dementia diagnosis (links to /resources#dementia-planning)

Florida Medicaid myths, explained carefully (links to /resources#medicaid-myths)

VA Aid and Attendance for veterans and surviving spouses (links to /resources#va-aid-attendance)

What to do after a parent dies (links to /resources#after-a-death)

Florida Medicaid and long-term care planning overview (links to /medicaid-planning)

Planning for yourself or your spouse? See For Seniors & Couples. Helping a family in your work? See For Professionals.

Talk through the next step

Bring your questions, a list of accounts and any papers a hospital, nursing home or Medicaid office has sent you. Call the Delray Beach office or request a consultation, and I can look at where things stand and what may come next. A phone call or an email does not by itself create an attorney-client relationship.

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